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History of Clara Leona Schramm Metcalf

by her own hand

   

I was born at my parent's home in Payson, Utah Co., Utah, on a blustery Saturday afternoon, March 27, 1909.  My mother was attended, by a mid wife, Mrs. Mary Oberhansley.  The delivery was slow.  Finally I arrived, a baby girl with long black hair.  I was not the son my father had wanted, but was accepted and loved just the same.

 

I was the seventh in a family of eight children August Schramm and my mother's maiden name is Pauline Caroline Schwab.    When I was a little over two years of age another sister, Pauline, was born to our family, making a total of eight children.

 

I have three brothers and four sisters. Their names and birth dates are: Martin Ferdinand, 9 August 1895, Carl Herbert, 22 July 1897, Ruby Lily, 15 March 1900, Reed Anthon, 14 Nov 1901, Martha, 27 August 1903,  Elsie, 25 December 1905, and Pauline, 9 August ,1911.

 

I was blessed by my father, Ferdinand August Schramm 2 May 1909, in the Payson First Ward, Nebo Stake, Payson, Utah.

 

Some of my early childhood memories are of the family seated around the large kitchen table enjoying  mother's delicious meals.  There was a bench behind the table where four or five of us younger ones sat.  I remember Pauline sitting in her high chair by father, and her reaching over and snitching goodies out of father’s plate in preference to the baby food her mother had prepared for her.  I also remember having to leave that friendly table once along with my sister Martha because no one would sit by us.  Martha had watched the geese eating the tops of the garlic plants.  She thought if the geese ate them they must be good, so she indulged and feed some to me.

 

I recall following the older children to the work. My brother Reed finally marked off a short distance on the ends of the beet row and taught me how to thin beets.  Sometimes he would carry me back to the house astride his shoulders when I became to tired to walk.  I also recall going with the family to what we called “The Poor Field” where we also had beets to thin.  A train track ran along the side of the field.  I had a great time watching the trains go by.  There was a flowing well in the far corner of the field, and since I couldn’t thin as many beets as the older children I was sent to carry water for them.  It was a long way to go after water, and the bucket didn’t have a lid.  When I got to the thirsty workers, there was more water on me than there was in the bucket and I had to go again to fetch more water.

 

Christmas was an exciting time in my young life. The preparation began weeks in advance with the making of Christmas cookies that has to mellow with age.  As Christmas neared we younger children were whisked off to bed early. Then we lay awake listening to the whirr of the sewing machine and the sound of hammer and saw.

 

Money was very scarce so our parents had to make most of our gifts. For things they couldn’t make they shopped for late to take advantage of reduced prices.  Often they pieced together a couple of broken dolls and made one lovely doll out of the two.  Mother and father stayed up late on Christmas Eve getting everything put together. Mother used to say they had scarcely gotten to sleep when we children came creeping down the stairs to see what Santa had brought.

 

We lived on a farm about a mile and a half from town.  We had no electricity, our lights were kerosene lamps. Later father got us a hanging lamp called an Aladdin Lamp.  It gave a very good light.  We pumped water from a well outside the kitchen door.  We pumped water for all the household uses, washing, bathing, etc. as well as for the cows, horses, pigs, chickens, ducks, and geese.

 

Saturday night baths were taken in a screened off area by the kitchen stove in a round tin tub.  The water was first pumped from the well, carried in the house and heated on the stove. 

 

We burned wood along with a little coal.  I remember father and the boys going to the canyon for wood, the huge woodpiles we use to have, and the never ending task of keeping the wood box by the stove filled.

 

One thing I disliked very much as a child was wash day.  All the water had to be pumped and heated on the stove.  The .washing machine had to be turned by hand.  Part of the clothes had to be scrubbed by hand on the washboard, and the white clothes had to be boiled in the boiler.  All of the clothes had to be rinsed a couple of times and hung on the line to dry.  Then all of the wash water had to be carried out doors again,

and the kitchen scrubbed.  To wash for the ten of us was a day long job.

 

Ironing day on the other hand seemed pleasant to me as a child. (Of course I wasn’t doing it then).  Mother heated the irons over a hot fire in the kitchen stove and as the ironed, going back and forth from the ironing board to the stove to replace cold irons with hot ones, I sat by the ironing board and listened to her tell me stories.  This was a very special time to me.

 

Our farm was small, so to make it provide a living for us we had to raise crops that required a lot of work.  We raised fruit, berries, sugar beets, potatoes, grain, and alfalfa.  For the cannery we raised string beans, lima beans, peas, and tomatoes.  We all had to help with the work.  When the boys married and left home we younger girls became our father's farm hands.

 

We raised nearly all of our food. The cows furnished us with milk and butter, extra butter was exchanged at the store for groceries.  Father raised and cured our meat.  I recall the smoke house with the hams and bacon being cured, and then the hams and bacon being hung from beams in the cellar ceiling.  Father took the wheat to the mill and had it ground into flour.  He always had a barrel of sour kraut in the cellar.  We had our own potatoes, carrots squash, dried beans, and apples put away for winter.  Mother usually had a crock of eggs in some kind of brine saved for winter's cooking when the hens didn't lay.  Sometimes mother even made cheese.  She and the older girls made most of clothing.

 

Our nearest neighbors were the James Francom families.  There was Mr. and Mrs. Francom and their daughter Pearl, their widower son James and his two children Stella and Warren.  Later James married Vera Dudley, built a small house by his folks and there was added to the family over the years, Alice, Dean, Fern, Rulon, and Dorothy.

 

On summer evenings the older children of both families used to play games together out in the street.  Sometimes they let me play with them, but I was smaller and always got caught.  Our families were very close, more like kin folk than neighbors.  We exchanged work on the farm and were always on hand when either needed help.

 

I remember the first money I ever earned.  Mr. Francom hired us to help thin his sugar beets.  I was young but I had learned to thin beets at an early age.  I earned two big round silver dollars.  They represented a lot of work.  We were paid five cents a row for thinning the beets.  I thought I was rich.  I kept telling everybody over and over what I was going to do with my two dollars.  Finally my mother said,  "But you don’t have two dollars to spend Leona”  I said, "Oh yes I do", and I showed her my big shinny dollars.  Again she said, “But you don’t have two dollars to spend.  You owe ten cents out of each of those dollars to the Lord for tithing.”  That was my first introduction to tithing.

 

Each summer when we got the beets all thinned father would take us to a picture show.  That was a real treat.  During the summer we would go to Utah Lake to go swimming.  At first we would go in the wagon, and the outing would take all day.  Later, after father got his Model T Ford, we could go much faster and more often.  We often went in company with Aunt Matilda and Uncle Carl Schwab's family and had a very enjoyable time.

 

We were the second ones in our neighborhood to have a car when father bought his used Model T Ford. My, how proud we children were of it.  It had a set of kerosene head lights on either side of the windshield in case the other lights didn’t work.  Mother was very nervous about riding in it.  It would go so FAST.  That didn't bother us kids.  The faster they went the better we liked it.

 

My schooling began at the age of six.  I attended the Peteetneet Elementary School in Payson ,Utah.  I had the same teacher in both the first and second grades.  Her name was Edna Loveless.  She was a lovely person, my favorite elementary teacher.  In the first grade I walked to school with by brother Reed and sisters Martha and Elsie.  Reed was in the sixth grade.  On the way to school we met the Elmer children.  They were older than I and they all walked very fast.  I used to beg Elsie to slow down and walk with me, but she wanted to keep up with the other children, so I walked one step and ran two trying to keep up.  I arrived at school panting and with a burning in my chest.

 

First grade was just a half day session at that time.  I wasn’t sorry when the teacher changed me to the afternoon session although it meant walking the mile alone.

 

When  I was in about the third grade I remember a salesman coming to the school to demonstrate a new piano that the school was getting.  All the children in the school were sent out for afternoon recess and the doors were locked.  The recess lasted the rest of the afternoon.  I wasn't feeling well and shivered in the cold as I huddled by the side of the building.  I could feel something coming up in my hair and out on my back.  I wanted to go home, but didn't dare to leave without permission. Finally when we were dismissed I walked the mile home in cold.  When I I got home they found that I was breaking out with chicken pox.

 

It wasn't an easy matter getting to school in our day.  The roads were just plain dirt roads, no gravel, no hard surfacing.  In the summer they were deep with dust, in the fall slick and muddy, in the winter covered with snow drifts, and in the spring so deep with mud and ruts that they were almost impassable.

 

After father got his Model T Ford he would take us to school in it sometimes.  On cold mornings he had terrible time starting it.  On stormy days we often got stuck and had to get out and push.  The back wheels of the car would spin around and splash mud allover us.  I guess we were a sight when we finally reached school.  We always walked to school in good weather and soon learned that walking was the surest way of getting there in any weather.  In winter when the snowdrifts were frozen hard we cut across the fields and walked right over the fence tops.

 

I was still in the Primary grades when World War I broke out, and my oldest brother, Martin went to France.  I remember how they stressed at school the buying of thrift stamps to help the war effort.  Pauline and I filled a book together because we neither had enough money to fill one alone.  While Martin was in the army father bought us an Edison phonograph.  My how we enjoyed it!  We wrote and told Martin about it and he asked us not to play it too much so that it would still, be in working condition when he got home.  I also remember November the eleventh nineteen eighteen when the Armistice was signed. We were harvesting beet when we heard whistles blowing, bells ringing, and guns blasting.  We didn't know what it was all about.  Without telephone, radio, or TV, it took until the afternoon when someone returned from town to learn the news.

 

I remember when Martin returned from the army.  We didn’t know just when he was coming.  He arrived in town in the night and walked home hoping to surprise us.  In the meantime our Uncle Martin, Aunt Melvine and four children had come to stay with us.  We had beds all over the place.  Martin opened the door and walked in, in the dark, as he used to do, but he was the one who got surprised as he stumbled over the unexpected beds.  With Martin’s return there were sixteen of us.  We kids had a ball, but I have often wondered how my poor mother ever prepared the meals and took care of all of us.

 

I was baptized when 1 was eight years old on April 1,1917. l was baptized by Nahum T. Curtis and confirmed the same day by my father.  I attended Primary in the Payson First Ward .  I also attended Religion Class until it was discontinued.  I graduated from Primary when I was fourteen, and then started M.I.A.

 

I attended the Peteetneet School until I finished the fifth grade.  In the sixth grade I went to the Central School.  It was over a mile and a half from home. The next year the seventh grade was at the Central School.  Previously the seventh grade had been held in the high school.

 

When I was about eleven or twelve years old I had an experience that I remember quite vividly.  It was a Saturday in the fall. Father had gone to Genola to help the boys.  He told Elsie and me to pick the grapes and pears.  We had been picking fruit all morning; and carrying it back to the house.  It was a long way to carry the fruit and we were tired.  In mid afternoon we were wearily returning to the orchard.  As we passed the corral Old Dan whinnied at Elsie.  (Dan was my brother Martin's, horse. He was a hambeltonian, a beautiful, high-strung, spirited, creature, dark red in color with a long black mane  and tail.  He was trained for racing in the buggy and was among the best.)  I was afraid of him.  Elsie loved him and he followed her around like a lamb.  Elsie stopped to feed him a handful of alfalfa and stroke his beautiful mane.  Suddenly an idea popped into her mind.  She said, "Why should we carry all this fruit while he stands here in the corral doing nothing. Let's hitch him to the buggy and haul the fruit to the house."  We soon had him hitched to the buggy and some empty boxes and buckets loaded in too.  Elsie said she would not try to drive him. She would just leave his halter on him and lead him along.  I said, "I think I'll ride too", and stepped into the buggy, not realizing that that was the signal for him to go.  He was off like a shot.  Elsie ran by his side pulling on the halter rope with all her might to stop him, but he wouldn't be stopped.  Soon he was dragging her along.  I kept calling to her to let go or she would be killed.  Finally she stumbled and fell.  Now Dan was running free like the wind.  Every time we went over a bump and the buckets rattled he jumped ahead faster.  I started heaving the buckets out of the buggy.  Every time one hit the ground he bounded ahead faster.  I recall what a beautiful sight he was running so free and graceful.  His head was held high, his neck arched, his nostrils flaring, and his tail and mane flying in the breeze.  He made a wide curve as we neared the top of the field and headed back to ward the barn.  We passed Elsie half sitting and half lying.  I thought she had been run over and hurt.

 

About this time I started to think about myself and became afraid for me.  When would we stop?  How was I going to get out?  As we approached the barnyard I saw the stacks of grain ready to be threshed.  Dan turned short between two stacks.  Two wheels of the buggy went way up the side of one stack.  I knew I was heading for a landing and I wondered where.  Close by was the beet cultivator with all of its attachments stacked in front of it.  I hoped I wouldn't land on it.  Suddenly from my place on the ground I thought I saw Dan, through a cloud of dust on his back with his feet in the air.  Before I reached my feet, he was on his again.  The shaft of the buggy had caught in the wire fence and thrown him.  The buggy was turned upside down.  I ran quickly and tied Dan to the fence.  Then I ran to see what had happened to Elsie.  I ran around the grain stacks and saw her running down through the field.  As soon as she got near enough she called, "How did you get out of that buggy?"

 

Together we went back to right the damage.  We unhitched Dan.  We had to get the buggy shaft out of the fence. 'The shaft was broken.  Then we had to turn the buggy right side up again and move it out of the way.  Neither of us had any serious injuries.  We couldn't help thinking how fortunate we were.  I narrowly missed landing on the cultivator.  I was thrown clear of the overturning buggy and landed just in front of the cultivator in a pile of burs.  It took about a half hour to get all the burs out of my long brown hair.  After that, two humble repentant girls patiently carried the remainder of the fruit themselves from the orchard to the house.

 

In the eighth grade I was to go to the High School.  I was looking forward to that.  A few weeks before school was to start I went with my father early in the morning to milk the cows at the Co-op pasture, I recall that I had a very sore throat.  We milked the cows and went home for breakfast.  Then Elsie, Pauline, and I went with father to Genola to help our older brothers hoe beets. I remember how hard I we I worked, yet I couldn't keep up with the other girls hoeing.  Then it started to rain and we had to run for shelter.  Again I couldn't move very fast.  Elsie and Pauline realizing that something was wrong took me by the arms and helped me get to shelter.  When we got home that night I was very ill and my neck was all swollen.  Mother thought I had mumps.  The next day I was no better. In the afternoon something broke in my throat and my parents sent for the Doctor.  On examination the Doctor said I had a severe case of diphtheria.  He phoned to Salt Lake and had some anti­toxin sent out for us, a super dose for me and smaller ones for my three sisters.  There followed some tense days of waiting.  Finally I began to improve, but not without some complications.  My throat and palate were paralyzed which left me with a speech defect like a person with cleft palate.  I also had a heart condition and impaired vision.

 

Needless to say I didn't start to high school that fall.  When I recovered sufficiently I had a tonsillectomy because a growth had come on one of my tonsils almost closing the throat. When I got over that the Doctor still wouldn't release me to go to school.  Finally as spring and summer came my speech returned to normal, my health improved, and by fall I was able to walk the two miles to high school.

 

In the summer of 1924, on .June 22, I received my patriarchal blessing from my Uncle Joseph Hatten Carpenter.  It has been a source a source of inspiration and guidance to me through out my life.

 

During these years there was quite a change in our family circle.  My sister Ruby had previously married Eugene Braithwaite on the 28 of January 1920.  Then in quite quick succession four others were married.  Reed married Erma Garner, June 6,1923, on Dec 19, 1923 Carl married Neva Passey.  On Feb.20, 1924, Martin married Hattie Shepherd, and on Dec. 3,1924 Martha married John Zeeman.  The house really seemed empty with just three children left, Elsie, Pauline and I.

 

I went on to school and in 1925 completed the ninth grade, graduating, May 20, 1925.  I continued my high school course and graduate, from the Payson High School May l8, 1928.  I also graduated from Seminary that same year. It was the first graduation class from the Payson Seminary.  I had the highest scholastic record for my class.  At the graduation exercises I gave an essay that I had written for an essay contest and was awarded a Book of Mormon by my teacher, John F. Oleson and his wife Grace.

 

I thought my education would end with high school because I knew we didn’t have the means for me to go on to college.  As fall approached my Aunt Lydia Carpenter(father's sister) came and offered to loan me the money if I would stay with her in Manti and attend Snow College.  She needed some one to help her in the house, so I could work for my board and father could give them some fruit and vegetable produce.  September found me living with Aunt Lydia, Uncle Joe and family.  I had never been to Manti before so everything was strange to me.  In fact I had never been away from home for more than a few days at a time. At school I didn’t know a soul.  By the end of the first week I was so homesick I felt that I couldn’t stand it.  Yet my expenses had been paid for the year, and I had borrowed the Money.

 

When Sunday came Uncle Joe and another man had a speaking engagement for Sacrament Meeting in a nearby town.  Aunt Lydia knowing that I was homesick insisted on my going with them.  I didn’t want to go because I thought I couldn’t stand the sight of another strange face, but Aunt Lydia won out.  The other man had his wife with him.  She was so friendly that I was soon at ease.  He must have been inspired for I felt

that the Lord was speaking directly to me through him.  He told about how homesick he was on his mission. He even went to the mission president and told him he was going home.  Then he told how he went to bed and dreamed that he had gone home.  He saw all the home people making fun of him and saying they knew he wouldn’t be able to stick it out.  He decided that he didn’t care what the people said, he knew his mother would be glad to see him.  When he saw his mother she was glad to see him in a way, yet she was very sad.  He knew she was disappointed and hurt because he had let them down.  Needless to say, when he awoke in the morning he went right to the mission President and told him that he was going to stay.

 

I too, went home that night and prayed for strength to carry on, and friends to come to my rescue.  I found both.  I found some very choice friends.  It was through some of my Manti friends that I later met the man who became my husband.

 

During my second year at Snow College my cousin, Mildred Jordan came to stay with Aunt Lydia too and attend Snow College.  We had a lovely winter together and developed a close friendship that has endured through out our lives.  We had a lot of fun going to parties, dancing, and dating.

 

I graduated from the Snow College 30 May 1930.  In July of the same year I received my teaching Certificate.  Two years of college were all that were required then for a teaching certificate.

 

As the summer progressed I haunted the mailbox waiting for a teaching contract that never came.  A depression swept the country and there were no jobs available.  For three months I did practice teaching with out pay to gain a little more experience.  I finally went to Salt Lake to find work because I had a debt to payoff.  All I could find was house work and it paid only twenty dollars a month.  For awhile I had quite a struggle with myself.  I resented the work I was doing when I had worked so hard to prepare for something better.  Finally I learned to find joy and satisfaction in work well done.  I also learned some valuable lessons in humility, patience, self control, and the art of homemaking. 

 

I worked in Salt Lake in the winter and went home in the summer to help on the farm until the crops were harvested in the fall.  My sister Pauline found work in Salt Lake the second winter I was there.  It was nice to have her for company.  I wasn't making much progress paying my indebtedness by just working the winter months.  The third winter I found work in Holladay.  When I was promised Thirty dollars a month if I would stay the following summer I decided to stay on the job and get my obligations paid off.

 

My cousins Mildred and Helen Jordan, and Katie Schwab Garbett were also working in Holladay.  On our days off we would have a good time together.  Mildred and Helen had boy friends, but because of the depression they were not earning much.  Sometimes we would pool our money and they would take us to Payson, Salt Air, or other points of interest.

 

During this time the big slump hit, and the banks closed their doors.  Everyone was frightened, not knowing what would happen next.  I remember seeing a little old lady fishing food out of a garbage can, eating it, and shoving some into a bag.  I went to Church in the Cottonwood Ward the Sunday after the banks closed.  The speaker gave a very inspirational and comforting talk.  Among other things he said that “a true believer in God is not afraid,  That he would do the best he could each day to serve his God and his fellow men and leave the rest to a kind, wise, Heavenly Father, who CAN and WILL reach out His hand and help.”

 

I was still working in Holladay when in April 1935 I received my first teaching Contract.  It was to teach the first, second, and third grades at Spring Lake Utah, in Nebo School District.  It would pay seven hundred dollars a year.  I was so happy I wept for joy.

 

I attended summer school that summer at the University of Utah, working for my board and room.  After summer school was over I returned to Payson to live with my parents and sister Elsie.  In the meantime Pauline had married Arthur Young, 29 Nov. 1933, and moved to Mona, Utah.

 

I traveled back and forth to Spring Lake with my principal.  The second year I taught I bought a 1930 Model A Ford.  My Dad’s Model T had worn out so we shared my car.

 

When I carne home to teach school I was also given a position in the Junior Sunday School, teaching the Kindergarten class.  I held that position for thirteen years.

 

I taught school in the winter and attended summer school at the Brigham Young University until in Nov 1937.  I received my Three year Normal Teaching Certificate.  Sometimes I taught summer kindergarten for six weeks in the summer.  I taught in Spring Lake three years, then I was transferred to the Salem School where I taught a mixed second and third grade.  During that year I bought a new 1938 Plymouth car.  Also during that year we built our own electric line and had electricity installed in our home for the first time.

 

The summer of 1939, Elsie and I and a teacher friend, ZelIa Stone, her sister Beatrice and another friend drove to Yellowstone Park in my car.  My mother was worried to death, she said we should have a man along on a trip like that.  It didn't comfort her at all when we told her we would pick one up along the way if we needed one.  We got along fine by ourselves and had a marvelous time.  The park was so beautiful and exciting.  I was there twice afterwards, but it never did look so good again.

 

In 1940 I was transferred to the Peteetneet School in Payson where I taught for eight years.  I enjoyed my teaching experiences very much.  I also enjoyed the association and friendship of the many fine people with whom I worked.  After attending summer school and extension classes for several years I was able to graduate from the Brigham Young University on June 4,1947, with a Bachelor of Arts Degree.

 

One year later, June 2, 1948 I was privileged to enter the Manti Temple and there be married to Joel Clement Metcalf for time and all eternity.  It was a beautiful day.  The opening meeting was one of the most inspirational I have ever attended.  Everything was so calm and peaceful that we couldn’t help feeling we were in the presence of the Lord.

 

President Lewis H. Anderson performed our marriage.  My two brothers, Carl and Reed, were our witnesses.  We were accompanied by my mother, Elsie, Pauline, Reed and Erma, Carland Neva, and Aunt Lydia.

 

After the ceremony we went to Aunt Lydia’s for lunch. Then Clem and I went to Gunnison where his mother and sisters had prepared a dinner for us.  We returned to Payson and picked up some of my belongings and came to our little home in Granger.  We spent our honeymoon fixing up our home.  A few years later we went to Los Angeles with Walter and Katherine Ricks on a belated honeymoon.

 

It was hard for me to leave home.  Mother and Dad were getting older and had come to depend on me quite a bit. Elsie was not well at the time either.  Clem was very understanding and let me return home often and help them.

 

Clem had built a little house about a year before we were married.  It had a kitchen, a bedroom, and a living room that was not finished.  We decided to build on the house adding a partial basement, a bathroom, and another bedroom.  We had to dig a well first for that was the only means of water.  By the tine we got a well dug, and a basement dug and cemented,  it was the end of October.  We got the blocks laid for the house,  the rafters up and most of the shingles on when it started to storm and the roof leaked.

 

The winter of 1948 and 1949 was a hard one.  It was the winter of blizzards and gigantic snowdrifts.  Our house was only partially finished and very cold.  To make matters worse there was a strike at the smelter. Then Clem had to go to the hospital for surgery.  I had the cow to milk, the calves, pigs, and chickens to take care of, besides carrying in coal, shoveling snow, and battling snowdrifts to get into the hospital to see him. After Clem returned from the hospital the roads were completely closed for awhile.  We got down to our last big lump of coal before the roads were cleared enough for us to get to the mill to get some more.

 

During that winter, in Feb 1949, I was asked to be a counselor in the Relief Society to Irene Bawden.  Hilda Newman was the other counselor and Kathryn Ricks the Secretary.  Later Iva Latimer became the other counselor.  The calling was a big surprise to me.  I had never been able to attend Relief Society before and knew very little about it.  We had the privilege of choosing the furnishings for the new Relief Society room as the Granger Second Ward chapel was just being completed at that time.  I served in the Relief Society for about five years.

 

During this time our hearts were saddened by the sudden death of my father on Oct 25, 1951.  He was eighty one years old, and although he wasn't well he remained active.  He died of a heart attack as he returned to the house-from milking his cows.  This was the first death in our family and it left us all quite shaken.  A year and a half later another tragedy occurred.  Our brother Reed, just fifty one years old was taken with a sudden heart attack on 13 June 1953.  Another year and a half passed and on Oct 23, 1954, our dear mother whose health had been quite delicate since father's death, slipped quietly away as she sat in her chair.  She was eighty three years of age.

 

As we mourned the passing of our loved ones, we realized how blessed we were in having had them as long as we had.  We were comforted in knowledge that they had not had to suffer unduly and that the parting would only be for a brief season.

 

Clem and I were not blessed with a family of our own and so after five years of marriage I accepted the call to return to teaching.  I started teaching at the Kearns Elementary in Dec. 1953.  It was the second year that there had been a school at Kearns.  I had a mixed first and second grade in a little upstairs room about eleven by thirty feet.  The school Superintendent told me that they would start me out about sixteen youngsters, and that by Spring I might have twenty six.  They started me out with twenty seven and by spring I had forty, so close we could scarcely move.

 

Clem and I worked together completing our home and yards.  We did everything we could ourselves.  Clem used to say,” Did you ever think it could be this much fun.?"  Now I didn't always think it was fun.  Sometimes I thought it was down right hard work!

 

One April day in 1955 I was just finishing my day's teaching when I was called to the office to the telephone.  It was a doctor from the smelter calling and he told me that my husband had just been injured in an accident, and that I had better get into the St. Marks hospital as soon as I could.  When I got to the hospital Clem was in surgery.  I had some anxious hours of lonely waiting, not knowing what had happened.  Finally a foreman from the smelter came and waited with me.  He said Clem had been in and explosion and there had been some extensive injuries.

 

Finally they brought him from the recovery room. He was swathed in bandages and still unconscious.  Shortly after the bishopric came into the room.  One of the teachers I worked with notified them of the accident.  I told them how good it was to see them after waiting there alone.  One of them said to me, "We are never alone".  I have remembered that ever since.  They gave him a wonderful blessing, promising him that he would recover.  He did get along better than the Doctors anticipated and after several months returned to work, but he never regained his former strength.

 

In the mean time we purchased a little home and farm in Payson.  Clem was very happy about it.  We spent all our spare time fixing it up.  This was where we were going to spend our retirement years.  About three years after Clem's accident his health began to fail.  The doctors could find nothing wrong with him, but his condition continued to worsen.  One Saturday morning, Jan 23, 1959, he passed out from internal bleeding.  I rushed him to the hospital in an ambulance

 

After several weeks of testing the doctors gave me the fatal word.  He had CANCER.  My world tumbled down around me, yet I had to go on for him.  There followed surgery, months of radiation treatments, return trips to the hospital for blood transfusions, and more treatments.  None of it did any good.  Finally on July 20, 1959,he passed away in the St. Marks Hospital.  We had only had eleven brief years of marriage.

 

It was hard for me to go on alone.  Clem ,and I had been very close and dependent on each other.  Then too, I had grown up in a large family and had never had to be alone.  I spent some time with Elsie in Payson, and she spent some time here with me.  She was a great help and to me as were my other brothers and sisters.  At last it was time for school to start and me to stand on my own.  At school Adeline Wright was a big help to me.  We shared rides, and she gave me a lot of inspiration.  Still in the loneliness of the night I would often wonder how I could ever go like this alone for the rest of my life.  It was then that I would tell myself that I didn't have to live the rest of my life just then, but that I could make it one day at a time. and I did.  I kept very busy with my school work, my home, and garden.  I also went back to teaching Gospel Doctrine Class in Sunday School.

 

Clem suffered so much during his illness that I used to wonder why there should be so much suffering in the world.  Again, as I had previous occasions, I received my answer in church.  Two different times, in different types of meetings, the speakers talked on the need of suffering in our lives.  They said it was a necessary part of life.  We came here to be tested.  Suffering was like the refiner's fire, burning out the dross in our lives and leaving us more fit for Our Father's Kingdom.

 

A year after my husband's death, Aug 11, 1960 our lives were saddened again by the sudden death of our oldest brother Martin, two days after his sixty fifth birthday.

 

Life was not all sadness.  In the summer of 1961 I went with my neighbor, Elizabeth Petersen, and some other friends on a very delightful trip to see the Hill Cumorah Pageant and other points of Church and historical interest.  I had never been in the east before.  I was fascinated by seeing the corn fields that extended for miles upon end with hundreds of pumps scattered through out them pumping oil right out of the corn field.

 

I continued to teach school until my retirement in June 1974.  I taught a total of thirty four years.  I taught thirteen years before I was married and twenty one after.  I want to pay tribute to the wonderful people with whom I was privileged to work all those years.  With retirement facing me I wondered again how I would face it alone, but I got busy with Genealogy work.  We hired a little Swiss Lady, Anna Fink, to help me read the Swiss records in the Genealogy Library.  This was really a thrill.  Sometimes we would search for hours and

hours for a certain name without any luck.  Then suddenly she would exclaim,  “I've found it!' Here it is.”  Then she would show me the name on the records.  We were able to find a wealth of genealogy on my father’s and mother's line which we had been unable to get before.

 

In April 1975 from the twentieth to the thirtieth I went with my sisters, Elsie and Pauline, on a wonderful tour of the Holy Lands with the B.Y.U.  This was one of the highlights of my life, starting with my first airplane ride, my first time on foreign soil, and then traveling the length and breadth of the Holy Land, viewing the scenes and walking in the sacred spots where Jesus had walked and taught.  The scriptures lived for us as we studied in the sacred settings of Bethlehem, Jerusalem, the Sea of Galilee, the Mount of Olives, the Garden of Gethsemane, and by the Garden Tomb, where the Angel declared the marvelous truth, “He is not dead, but is risen.”  We returned home with that testimony ringing in our ears, and a desire in our hearts to live the gospel more fully than we had ever before.

 

On May 20, 1976 our heads were once more bowed in grief at the passing of our dear sister Martha.  Even in death there is beauty.  It was a beautiful sight to see her family, her husband, six lovely daughters, six handsome sons, their partners, and all her fine grandchild gathered together to pay her honor.  She was a devoted wife and wonderful mother.

 

On April 14 1976 I was called to work in the Salt Lake Temple.  This was a choice blessing.  I was later set apart as an ordinance worker.  I was very happy in this calling.  We would leave home at four thirty in the morning to work the early session, but it was worth it.  I worked there for two and a half years.

 

In June of 1978 I began to have severe pains in my lower abdomen. I went to the doctor and had numerous tests, 'but they couldn't find anything seriously wrong.  Finally the first part of October the Doctor discovered a tumor and said I should have surgery immediately.  The bishop and his counselors came and administered to me before I went into the hospital.  The bishop gave me a wonderful blessing which gave me peace and assurance to face the operation although I was quite certain what the outcome would be.

 

After surgery the Doctor told me that I had a cancer on the ovary . They removed the ovary, but the cancer had spread to other places where they couldn't get it.  The doctor said they had had good success in treating that type of tumor with chemotherapy, and that when I recovered sufficiently from the operation I was to take chemotherapy treatments.  I started taking chemotherapy in November.  They say the treatments usually last a year.  I still don't know what the outcome will be.  If it is the Lord's will that I should recover, I shall devote my time to His service.  If not I pray that I might have the strength to endure faithfully to the end.

 

I am very grateful to my sisters for their help, their love, and faith and prayers.  I am grateful to other members of the family and my many friends for the help and comfort they have given me.

 

Life has been good.  I have had many wonderful experiences and blessings.  I have worked in the M.I.A., on the Sunday School Stake Board, have been a teacher trainer for Sunday School and Primary, Taught Sunday School thirteen years in Payson and the Gospel Doctrine Class twenty years in Granger.  I was a Relief Society counselor five years, and a Relief Society visiting Teacher for many years.  I also had the privilege of being a temple worker.

 

I know the Gospel is true.  I know that Jesus Christ is the Savior of the world, that he lives and is the only means by which we can obtain Salvation.  I know that Joseph Smith was a prophet of God, and that the Church is lead by living prophets today.  My advise to family and friends is to stay close to the Church, keep the commandments, pay your tithes and offerings.  It is only in the service of the Lord that you can find true happiness.  I know God hears and answers prayers, not always in the way we desire but in the way that is best. 

 

I am particularly fond of the following poem:

 

IN HIS STEPS

(Author unknown to me)

 

The road is rough, I said. There are stones that hurt me so.

My child, He said, I remember the way, I walked it long ago.

 

But there is a cool, green path, I said, Let me walk there for a time.

No child, He gently answered me, The green road does not climb.

 

My burdens, I said are far to great, How can I bear them so?

My child, He said, I remember the weight, I carried my Cross you know.

 

But, I said, I wish there were friends with me, Who would make my way their own

Ah, yes, He said, Gethsemane was hard to face alone.

 

And so I climbed the stony path, Content at last to. know,

That where my Master had not gone, I would not need to go.

 

And strangely then, I found my friends, The burdens grew less sore

As I remembered long ago, He walked this way before.

  

Contributed by jhammond22@cox.net

 

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